Talk:Stevonnie/@comment-164802-20150304080436/@comment-164802-20150313033834

Pretty much what Myoukei said, its better to ask than to misgender. I am a Male, a tad chunky with wide curvy hips, small shoulders, and my physical aneurisms are often associated with girls, IE: I sway my hips when I walk, I shake hands with others gently, I smile softly with my lips, not my teeth, I have long dark hair, and I am often told by my mother, and my mothers friends, I look exactly like her when she was my age.

As a result, people mistake me for a woman all the time, and I don't even TRY to come off as a female, its simply how I am. I can't even count the amount of times I've had people get embarrassed, scream, or even run away when I tell them "Hey, hon, sorry but I'm not a girl, I'm a boy." I would much rather people ASK me if they are unsure of what gender I am, rather than just assuming.

So yes, when it comes to androgynous/gender-fluid beings like my Self and Stevonnie, please, ASK US. Dont assume! As the saying goes "Assuming makes an ass out of you and me." More so you than me.