As a lot of you know, I've been off chat for most of the day today. I'm going to be off chat for a while, so If anybody wants me on just write me on my wall. I'll come when somebody wants it, but for the most part I want to spend less time on chat. When I do come on, It won't be for long. I'm trying to get in to the thought that I am not obligated to go on chat in any way. I keep staying on chat when I feel miserable or joining when I don't want to because I think I have to. I'm just not going to join in the first place, again, unless somebody wants me there so don't be shy. I'm fine, I just don't want to stay on chat on the rare cases that I feel miserable, then obliged to keep staying there and feel worse.